2nd day of uncle's funeral

Juz came back frm chong pang where my 2nd uncle's funeral is at. Came back to hav a bathe n is so shiok.

4/10/07

at 6 sharp fong called me saying that his father cannt liao.. n i juz stunt there thn ask him wher he is n he is at home. thn i went to living room thgt of calling of my mum.. but my hse phone is engage.. check around n realise my mum's room phone didnt put properly.. so i juz call her n inform her. she was shock too. i return to my room. Phone rings again. shu hua jie jie call sae her father passed away liao. n ask me to inform my parents. A secs of blank in my mind. n all i remb the day be4 i see him in hospital. He had breathing diffcult tat nite. n most of us was there n he say he felt better. n reminded his child muz noe how to zou ren.

I called my mum n dad n inform them. n i waited for my mum to come back and take cab down wif her. Went into my bro's room to email my sis abt it. n awaken my bro. n told him abt it. It was so sudden. took cab n was heavy jam. reach there grandpa n relative were all there.

It is really sad. A kind uncle of mine. always very anything n very da fang. Always joke around. 和蔼. I remb the days when im young im used to stay at the pet shop. sumtime do help out for fun. Always play wif rabbit n he juz ask me to bring home.. supply me all necessary stuff.. But my rabbit tends to die very fast. i remb i took n it died n i took again. 5 rabbits died altogether. Hamster i took too.. but hamster tends to survive. n the babys i give back n let them sell.
The only thing is tat he likes to drink. He dun smoke. but 20yrs ago he happened to knoe that he gt hep B. So drinkin for so many yrs resulting damage in his liver. 6 mths ago, he went for check up be4 he can actually buy insurance. His report stated tat he gt liver cancer. He didnt take gd care. Contud eating oily food even he shldnt. He was admitted to TTS n i sae there is no cure frm tts. n went to SGH. N he juz left us. He did suffer due to his stomach bloated. He didnt eat anything for more thn 10 days.

I nv expect to attend his funeral at all.. at this age of him is only 54. n my dad was 55. He haven get to see his child to marry. haven see his grandchild. his life ended incompletly. We stay n waited n waited. the service frm the in charge of the funeral was so slow.. Compare to my grandma's.. they are slow till the max.. We waited frm morning 7 + /8 till 3+ then they start setting up the area.. n they r super slow. Everything lack ask them to bring took one whole dae. haiz.. bang shi xiao lui so slow. N stay tehre keep folding incense paper, coz only 3 days. sudden n rush. I stay there n guard for the nite wif my bro n cousins. We ensure the cat has no way to enter n it simply took us an hr. n we start mahjong. 1 guard the joss stick n 3 guard for cat. n im the cat detcector. really sense cat. n was kanna shock by cat. n was super energetic. When we juz started playing mahjong. there is one big grp of uncle came n giv 10 n they took a table start to gamble.. n at the later time. we r tired. so we stop mahjong. my bro n me win only.. ask fong to take a short nap. n we guard on cat n folding incense paper again. one of the man frm the gang came to giv 50 buck.. there was also a ridiculous taxi man.. purposely make his way n wash his car using the water tat we use to wash plate. He need to save till like tat? forgdness sake. N even join gambling too. my bro n me went hm by cab to rest at 6am.

5/10/07
woke up at 1 plus ask my dad to fetch me back to chong pang. n back there nv eat till nite. busy folding incencse paper. n it was freaking hot. Juz like sauna lor. sweat like nobody business. n super sticky. tonit gt chant frm 7 till 11. burn the hse to him. at time when fong trying to throw the coin it doesnt work. n aks us to call him. heard frm other uncle maybe he still cant let go.. when He still alive, everydae worry abt shop business, his child. haiz.. may he rest in peace.
Todae gt nice dinner n at 10 plus the gang of pple came again.they wun pai sae de lor.. n they start gamble again. n for me join my parents back. as i felt so irriated being so sticky. so bathe le. waiting for my hair to dry.. sis is comin back n parents r gg to fetch her tml. n tml gg to chu sua liao. haiz. i suppose tears sure drop de lor.. sumhw i dunnoe i juz cant control my tears.